5 signs to understand if you live sex in a healthy way or are influenced by something else ...
The sexual sphere is an integral part of our life, and we all face strengths and weaknesses, satisfactions and dissatisfactions, good and bad moments. The real question is: are we really serene in our relationship with sexuality? There are 5 indicators that can help answer this.
In the meantime, here are some useful tips, if you are short of ideas:
- · 1. Live sex freely and with serenity
- · 2. Use precautions
- · 3. Choosing for yourself whether to have hard sex
- · 4. Don't be afraid to masturbate
- · 5. Having sex for yourself
1. Experience sex freely and with serenity
To be free and serene to have sex a lot or a little, when you want and with whom you prefer, or not to do it, and to be able to say no. This is the primary and fundamental indicator and factor of a healthy relationship with sexuality. You shouldn't feel forced to do anything you don't want, and you should feel free to do whatever you want. Obviously minimizing the risk of sexually transmitted diseases. Healthy sexuality is not only a psychological relationship, but also a concretely physical relationship with oneself and with the partner.
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2. Use precautions
It is very important to always use the necessary precautions, and choosing to use them is a symptom of a healthy and responsible sexuality. The condom in particular, should also be used in the case of oral sex, and also in the case of using a contraceptive pill. This is because we are not only talking about pregnancy prevention, but also and above all about sexually transmitted diseases! Furthermore, the condom does not necessarily reduce the pleasure, on the contrary it can also become a sort of erotic game between you, and it is a must have in the case of occasional relationships with people who do not know each other well!
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3. Choose for yourself whether to have hardcore sex
No one should force another to do what one does not want. So in sex it is important to know not only that you can say "no", but also that you can say "let's try" and then decide if you want to continue. What are we talking about? Of things outside the classic routine: anal sex, prostate stimulation, use of various sex toys, waxing and so on. Experimenting indicates a healthy relationship with sexuality as much as possible to say "no" to experimentation.
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4. Don't be afraid to masturbate
Masturbation is something that once seemed obscure, forbidden and forbidden. Especially for us women, clearing certain prejudices has not been easy and we are not quite there yet. A healthy sexuality, and a clear and serene relationship with your body, provides the freedom and autonomy to experience masturbation with a certain naturalness. Ultimately no, we don't do anything wrong.
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5. Have sex for yourself
And for whom else? For the partner, the friend who challenges you, because this is what the society around us wants ... in short, to satisfy expectations that are not ours. Sex, on the other hand, should not be used as a bargaining chip, it must not be exploited, it must be lived with the desire to feel good and to act for one's own personal pleasure, always and first of all.
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Oh yeah, a bit of healthy selfishness never hurts, look at an interesting factor in the album to be able to free yourself while making love:
