What does a man have to have to really like us?

We are going to answer the question that every man will have done a million times, most likely coming to the wrong conclusion. As much as our grandmother recommends us to find him handsome and rich, what attracts us and keeps us tied to a man for a long time is definitely something else!

He has something to explain to you about ...

1. · 1. Respectful
2. · 2. Determined
3. · 3. Our follower # 1
4. · 4. Sincere
5. · 5. Enterprising
6. · 6. Careful
7. · 7. Thoughtful
8. · 8. Positive
9. · 9. Inspired
10. · 10. Witty

I mean, if kids could read our minds like Mel Gibson in What Women Want, they would find that the type that makes our heart beat is:

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1. Respectful

A woman (like anyone) likes to feel confident, and little respect causes the opposite effect. If he makes us feel out of place, leaves us aloof, or treats us smugly, there will come a time when we will get tired of him. Feeling on the razor's edge may please us for a while, "but when we come to understand that we are investing too much energy - which we could devote to ourselves - we prefer to change direction.
If he wants it to last, he must recognize our worth and make us understand how much we mean to him.

2. Determined

If there is one thing we never tire of doing, it is to test a man.
If it's not just an adventure or a nail-chasing nail, we need to make sure there is real interest on the other side, because we have no intention of wasting time.
So the guy in question should show that he really cares ... and this requires a certain tenacity.
In short, a lot of decision and zero hesitation!

3. Our # 1 follower

A story cannot go far without mutual respect and support. If he believes in you and in your abilities, he has to let you know. If you are in a bad period, you need to know that you can count on him, that he will be close to you and that he will try to encourage you as you would with him. If he doesn't trust you, doesn't respect your job, and doesn't recognize your commitment, it just can't work.
Other than like of yours friends of Facebook, what really matters is the sincere support of your him.

4. Sincere

No lies are allowed, not even white ones. Whether he's lying shamelessly, revisiting the facts a bit or omitting some details - like the ex's presence at that party with old friends - we'll find out, just study his behavior and learn to decipher his body language. who has no escape routes and you will see how the desire to invent stories will pass.
Better to say things as they are rather than getting tangled up in a thousand turns of words. Does he not want to come to your parents' for dinner or does he want to go out with his best friend instead of accompanying you to the cinema? You prefer to hear the truth than to see him with his face all evening.

5. Enterprising

It's true, we women are organization freaks, we like to plan everything and take care of every detail. But that doesn't mean our man has to be lazy! We don't need extreme gestures but we certainly appreciate some wit. "initiative or a few small surprises. The idea of ​​spending a weekend out of town, the program of a different evening, a project to be developed together, but also a simple unexpected gesture, bring a little sparkle to the relationship and are the signal that the enthusiasm is still alive.

6. Careful

What we say, how we behave, what surrounds us. What we are looking for is a man who is curious to find out as much as possible about us. A man who tries to capture our deepest desires, who tries to understand how we really feel. A person who is really interested in what we have to say, who actively participates in our reasoning and who considers it important to share his initiatives because he cares about our opinion. Easy, right?

7. Thoughtful

Obviously we must not forget our childish side. The child in us wants a man who takes care of her and who always makes her feel protected. Are we asking too much?

8. Positive

This is another "characterist" that the ideal man cannot miss, especially if we are kind of cynical or whining. Complaining hurts and leads nowhere and it would be nice to have someone who reminds us every so often. we need is a positive person, not in the sense of "optimist at any cost", but in person with a vision, perhaps even broader than ours. Having a far-sighted man next to us can only make us more dynamic and constructive and stimulate our creativity .

9. Inspired

The creativity. Here's another thing that for some of us just can't miss. We don't want you to fantasize about the lies to tell us but about an artistic project, yes. It is no coincidence that many of our favorite musicians say they took the guitar to pick up.
Discovering his artistic talent can make us completely lose our minds ... but he doesn't need to be the new Jimi Hendrix, it is enough that he is so determined. Seeing them so absorbed and dreamy fascinates us to death. when we try our hand at art, we expect them to be our first fans.

10. Witty

The key word is "lightness". We need to feel free to joke with him, and that means making sure he is gifted enough with sense of humor. Curmudgeons and touchy people do not drive us crazy and are the last thing we need after hours of stress in the office. We need to switch off and distract ourselves from work, diet, deadlines and the other thousand thoughts that torment us. a laugh up!

And for last we can also leave the appearance. Let's say we could settle for something like this ...