Body language: the secrets for the interpretation of gestures
Body language is a fundamental aspect of communication. In fact, if you think that a message is communicated only with words, you are not a little wrong. It is precisely the non-verbal and gestures that occupy the most relevant percentage, and it is for this reason that it is essential to know the secrets for the interpretation of body language in order to understand and communicate in a more correct and conscious way.
The inguaggio of the male and female body: the interpretation of gestures in love
Even in love, for example, the game of attraction and seduction is built above all on gestures, rather than on words, and so touching your hair, crossing your legs or bringing your hands close to those of the interlocutor are charged with a certain meaning that in psychology it can indicate much more than we might think. And it is therefore essential to know these non-verbal languages of the female code to communicate the right messages and attract the people we want so as not to find ourselves juggling unwanted approaches. But also body language male can allow us to understand a lot of the situation we are experiencing so as to avoid being faced with a two of spades or to continue on a path that could lead us to experience something exciting.
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The secrets of body language: the eyes and hands among the most important parts for striking
So here are some tips to understand how it works and how to better manage body language.
Let's start with the secrets to make a good first impression: what gestures should we implement? And which ones are better to avoid? To be successful in the very first matches, of any kind, you should bet on these:
The face: it is the most expressive part of the body, immediately after the eyes. To show that you are happy with a meeting, you send a positive message by smiling. Be careful not to offer an exaggerated smile that can be perceived as forced: it is better to keep your mouth closed.
The eyes: a frank and direct eye contact is established. If too insistent and long, it can be interpreted as a threat or a need to impose one's superiority. Escaping or directed towards the ground, it is perceived as a sign of submission, weakness or dissimulation.
The handshake: a delicate exercise that will be performed by looking your interlocutor in the eye. Better if dynamic, solid and short, to demonstrate frankness, character and effectiveness. On the other hand, it is better to avoid the soft handshakes that denote a lack of character for 66% of people. As for wet hands, they betray anxiety and nervousness! When one wishes to show compassion or gratitude, the contact is prolonged.
The ideal position: Sitting upright in the chair, without crossing your arms or legs (these are signs of closure and rejection) and in front of your interlocutor. If you sit sideways, it indicates that you feel uncomfortable. You can put your hands on your knees but without showing your palms, a gesture that betrays submission or helplessness, and you don't have to clench your fists, because you transmit aggression. The territory of your interlocutor must be respected, it is better to avoid getting too close to him or putting your hands or forearms on his desk. A distance of 60 cm is the right distance to respect.
Body language: seduction and attraction pass first of all through gestures
Once again, gestures can speak louder than many beautiful statements. So, even in love, body language becomes a fundamental aspect: seduction and attraction undoubtedly start first of all through gestures and non-verbal communication. After all, doesn't everything always start from a game of glances between strangers? there are actually many gestures that indicate an "attraction in progress and that can communicate clear and evident messages even without the slightest need for words." So here is a mini breviary to know the fundamentals of body language in love to correctly understand non-verbal signals:
The mirror effect: the more people are close to us or want to be, the more they will echo our movements. If we catch him crossing his legs, scratching his knee or touching his hair when we do, bingo! This is a very good sign. On the other hand, if you step back in your chair, this shows that the "interest in you is not there" ...
A love parade: specialists have noticed that, like animals, men and women make certain gestures that invite them to get to know each other better. During a conversation with a male person, a woman will not necessarily realize that she is pulling her arms close to her torso and leaning forward to emphasize her cleavage, or adjusting her shirt to show her breasts. For his part, the man will send opening signals while sitting with his legs apart, his thumbs in his pockets and his hands outstretched.
Head Movements: To encourage conversation and show attention, don't hesitate to nod slowly and regularly. A slight inclination to the side is enough to indicate that you understand your interlocutor's speech and care.
