The first date
Traps to avoid:
- Put on the dress for special occasions: it is useless to think for hours on what to wear. If your look seems too neat, you risk feeling uncomfortable and he will have the impression that you are dressed in a mask! Instead, focus on clothing that looks like you, makes you feel comfortable and enhances you, of course.
- Go overboard with makeup: avoid hiding behind your make-up, he will notice it right away, and will end up wondering what terrible flaw you are trying to hide.
- Making blunders: do not pretend to be a great connoisseur of Chopin if he is a musician, and do not say that you love Tarantino if you have not even seen pulp Fiction! You may be able to get away with this encounter but, in the long run, you will end up getting caught. Be yourself and talk about the things you really like, you will surely find some commonalities!
- Telling your life: talking about himself is good, but he doesn't have to know everything about your past from the first date ... that you have been dumped every time because of your temper, or that you are complexed about the size of your breasts ... and others exciting information about you. Do not monopolize the speech all the time, he too will certainly have some very interesting things to tell!
Things to do:
- Be nice: you have to be at the top, well dressed but not too dressed up, made up but in the most natural way possible. And of course, with freshly washed hair, perfect nails, dazzling teeth and a drop of light perfume ...
- Ask questions: avoid the interrogations, but show him that what he says interests you, that you want to know more about what he does, about his passions ... listen to him by showing yourself interested in the conversation, keeping an intelligent air, however.
- Vary the topics of conversation: you are a huge David Bowie fan, ok, but avoid evoking all the stages of his career and all your favorite songs. Vary the topics of conversation to show him that you are truly eclectic.
- Be pleasant: smile, laugh (if you have the opportunity, of course, and not at the end of each sentence!), be relaxed and nice and, from time to time, pay him a little compliment, men are sensitive to flattery.
- Do not give in immediately: if you really like him and if you want this relationship to become something serious, if you can, don't give in on the first meeting. In this way you will give birth to the desire in him, and you will create an aura of mystery around you.
- Send him a text message: once at home, or the next day, text him saying you had a nice evening. This way you can also know if it was the same for him.
