Sexting: when sex is done at a distance
Sex in the time of the Coronavirus. When the other half is distant and locked in the house, how can you survive the desire? Self-eroticism is not necessarily the only solution. Ever heard of sexting?
- · What is sexting
- · Not just for kids
- · The quarantine: in pairs but far apart
- Sexting: watch out for risks
- · The 4 rules of sexting
What is sexting
Sexting is a word that has recently entered our vocabulary. It derives from sex + texting, and indicates the exchange of words through messages with erotic content from your smartphone, PC or tablet. Of course also images, sexy voice messages and videos are part of sexting: in short, the possibilities of seducing your partner from a distance are so many! Sexting is not as embarrassing as it might seem at first thought: exchanging erotic content with a high sexual (or sexy) component obviously with a partner you blindly trust is a way to strengthen intimacy. Through sexting you flirt at a distance: and distance becomes a plus, a degree of igniting desire and teasing the most unmentionable fantasies.
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Not just for kids
If you believe that sexting is something only for under 30s or very young people well, get ready to change your mind because sexting can give pleasure to couples who are at a distance and indeed, it helps these long-distance relationships to create moments of contact and fulfillment between couples. .
Recent sociological studies have shown that the main lovers of sexting are young adults who live between a thousand responsibilities and heavy workloads, who work at a fast and pressing pace and who find in sexting an opportunity for leisure and pleasure with little expense in terms of energy and commitment. They are also the major users of apps and sites for occasional meetings: and when the knowledge takes place online it is then easier to continue the relationship with a strong technological component, webcam, skype, video app, smartphone and sharing programs become part of the relation.
The quarantine: in pairs but far apart
Couples locked up at home for quarantine: the perfect opportunity and all the time needed to experiment with new positions and new ways of experiencing pleasure. But when the couple splits up, precisely because of the quarantine, a period of forced chastity is expected which certainly does not help to deal with the current situation and indeed worsens everyone's mood. Of course, you can survive the quarantine and the forced distance: there are basically two alternatives ... self-eroticism or experimenting with the joys of sexting and maybe rekindling some dormant spark!
If you are not in a long-distance relationship and you find yourself distant in this emergency, sexting can prove to be a valuable help and above all an opportunity to experience something new in the relationship. The advice is always to proceed step by step and to test if the partner has the same desire as you. To do this, you can start with a romantic candlelit dinner via skype, with a little pampering on whatsapp ... some explicit images or a sexy video and maybe wait for the atmosphere between you to warm up. Music can also help you: it is often a great soundtrack for sex!
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Sexting: beware of the risks
Sexting is a way to offer a bit of novelty even to long-standing relationships. If you're sexting with your regular partner, you can use erotic media exchange to ignite their fantasy and maybe come up with desires that you wouldn't confess face to face within the walls of your home. With a regular partner you can feel serene: you don't run the risk of your images ending up on the net and it's easier to let go! If, on the other hand, you are sexting with an adventure at night or with an occasional partner, it is better to be more cautious: the risks involved in these situations are really serious and you could find your hot photos online! If you want to do sexting with a person you know little, use the special messaging apps with "timed" contents that disappear after viewing.
The 4 rules of sexting
Don't be in a hurry: give the other person a way to feel at ease in a risque conversation, letting the atmosphere warm up is the best way to drop inhibitions and taboos. Well yes: even online the rule that applies to sex applies, foreplay is important.
Find a partner on the same wavelength as you: do not send messages and multimedia content if you are not sure that the other person is in the mood for sexting like you. An unwanted photo has the same effect as a harassment!
Spelling please! Have you ever seen anything less exciting than a man who misses all the subjunctives on the most beautiful? A serious spelling mistake causes libido to drop, when you don't send messages all the time but doses the words well and checks the spelling. Give up on emoticons - they're so unsexy! It is also forbidden to suddenly disappear and leave the virtual partner "halfway".
Pay attention: if you get the wrong sender and send a hot photo or a sexy message to the boss, your mom or the neighbor it could be really embarrassing. Ok, you are in the throes of passion and desire but it is always better to check the recipient once more! Then always remember to also delete the contents you send and receive from your smartphone, you could by mistake publish them on social networks or in the stories and they could also be seen by others. It is a question of privacy, respect for your sexual sphere and even security!
