8 things about you that make men run away and that you need to manage
Are your relationships short-lived and you can't keep a story going for more than 6 months? Maybe there is something that doesn't work, and you do something wrong to scare away the men you fall in love with. Let's see if you recognize yourself in these 8 mistakes ... and if you recognize in this girl who helps her best friend just dump your bff.
1. You would like him to protect you from your flaws
"I got fat, I have a new pimple, my hair is all breaking, I hate my legs ..." The list of your faults is very long and, every time your period is about to start, the list gets longer Don't you think it's best to avoid portraying yourself as a dump in his presence only to hear you say "don't be silly love, you're perfect just the way you are"?
It must be very stressful to take care of the uncertainties of those around you like a nurse ...
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2. Your friends know everything about you, absolutely everything
Your friends know everything about you. Even what he doesn't know. This makes your relationship not entirely exclusive, it disperses your energy in a multiple relationship in which you are protected by your friends and in which you never invest 100%. Don't you think that in the long run this adolescence should end and you should take responsibility for your choices, protecting the privacy of those you love?
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3. Complain your shortcomings
"You can't, you don't understand, you didn't, you don't want ..." The answer: if I'm not good for who I am, find another one. To blame a lack only causes a sense of guilt, dissatisfaction and misunderstanding. If something really makes you suffer, do not put it as a discomfort that the other makes you experience but as a point on which to work together to be closer.
4. Continuously analyze the report
It is not really necessary to take stock of the situation every week. Don't you think it's stressful to analyze every emotional variation in your story in detail? Live and let live!
5. You want to win over his friends at all costs
It is not your fault that you are so nice and helpful. But he can feel cast aside if you become for his friends not only the couple's point of reference, but also their confidant more than he is ... everyone must preserve a space in which to be independent and in some way, single.
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6. Hide your jealousy
You read his messages on the phone but you deny that you did, then you blame things at him with constant digs ... not only do you exasperate him because he always feels criticized, but it is not even clear where you want to go. Are you jealous or not? Obviously being so, perhaps, would allow him to reassure you; if, on the other hand, you are not so much the better ... but let's face this middle road: it makes no sense.
7. Expect me to like you
"But you didn't even like the photo of our shadow cast on my cat!" Is it possible that this man should venerate you on social media as if you were an extension of his thoughts? Let him like what he really likes and stop forcing him to like you in photos from when you were 3!
8. Talk about how your ex made you feel special
Your current partner doesn't care about how your ex gave you gifts, how talented he was in the sheets, how his mother welcomed you like a daughter. Stop testing him with these comparisons and think: if he did the same to you, how would you react?
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Instead of comparing him to your ex, here's how you might remedy some of his shortcomings ...
