7 steps to make a new relationship last and not let it run away right away!
We meet a new him, something particularly involves us, but maybe discouraged by our previous stories, full of images of an ideal man in the head, this is what happens to us: we charge, even unconsciously, this new person with a series of expectations and demands to which we would like answered. Sometimes, with our head bandaged before we fall, we sabotage our relationship before it even begins.Here are 7 steps to start a new relationship and make it last and in the meantime look at this couple here who tells us how many compromises you need to find:
1. Accept your own faults first and then those of the new partner
You can't start a real relationship by not knowing yourself and your limits. Our defects are our limitations that we ourselves must know how to manage. Dumping them on the partner destroys the relationship. Conversely, getting to know those of your new partner doesn't have to be a cause for confrontation or constant criticism. Analyze them, understand them, evaluate how compatible they are with your needs and above all accept them.
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2. Reduce expectations and demands
Wait for the prince and perfection: that's enough! It is useless to waste energy looking for the one who in your opinion could match you 100%. Starting a relationship with such pressure and demand can only be harmful, because you would like him to be sewn on you, when instead there is an exchange at the base of the relationship. It's not all about your desires, and besides we have news: often that man who matches you 100% could be the most boring man in the world. Nothing worse than being satisfied in all respects.
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3. Future yes, but no stress
Don't get started with lecturing on the future. The future must be a reason for comparison, dreams, expectations ... but not a reason for stress, especially at the beginning of an acquaintance. You couldn't do better to make him escape! Stress others with plans made for ourselves ... can't be a good idea!
4. Don't lose touch with reality
Daydreams, do you feel like Jasmine with Aladdin on the carpet? Yes friend, but every now and then it touches the ground. Falling in love is wonderful, but you must always be a little realistic to allow your story to have a sequel. Expecting accidents, climbs, misunderstandings and knowing that they will come, knowing that you want to face them in two is the trump card. Don't pretend that everything is. magical and infallible, otherwise at the first storm of wind the carpet of your love will waver.
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5. Be positive and confident
Being negative, anxious, distressed, fearful of losing it is not a good start, needless to say. If you are positive and trustworthy, the couple has a good reason to get off to a good start. Let yourself be carried away by negativity and doubts, by despair ... well, do you want a life partner or a father who comes to save you from your problems?
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6. Give time to share
Everything and immediately is reckless. Nothing and never is counterproductive. Wait to share, don't dump it all on him like a mad rush. Waiting to share makes the moments more awaited, more special, and perhaps more real and lived. Give time to time for everything. In short, do not leave with the "I love you" on the third date ... protect yourself.
7. Stay yourself
To question oneself, yes, to find compromises by force, to know that you have to accept, of course, but to change to be loved more no. You can't be loved if you don't love yourself. In the most banal sentences we find the truth. If you love, protect and respect each other then your new partner will too. What are you waiting for?
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