Sex appeal: tricks to hit the mark and win who you want!
They say sex appeal is a natural gift. You know when at a party your eyes are always on that girl who, wherever she goes, still manages to be the center of attention? There. If you are reading this article probably that girl is not you, at least not yet. But this may soon be your specialty. Yes, because the good news is that sex appeal is actually an art to be learned. Of course, you need to practice a little but the results you will be able to achieve will amaze even yourself. First rule? Don't believe those who tell you that she feels sexy at any time of the day from January to December: all women are human!
What is the sex appel?
According to the major Italian vocabulary, the Treccani sex appeal is the particular ability to exercise, with one's physical qualities (together with the look, the voice, the bearing, etc.), a strong sexual attraction. There is no doubt that the physical component counts a lot, but by sex appeal we also mean that sort of aura that accompanies some people. Beware, however, someone might believe that they are only beautiful and unattainable instead we are talking rather about people, men or women, able to emanate their own light and generate empathy in those who are in front of them otherwise only the VIPs would have sex appeal! We are talking about women who not only manage to seduce practically everyone but also do it with a non-ostentatious naturalness, made up of looks, gestures, bearing. This is the crazy thing: it comes very naturally to them!
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Do you feel confident in yourself?
When you feel confident and perfectly comfortable in your situation and with your body it shows, it is undeniable. This confidence is definitely a weapon of seduction that will allow you to flirt beautifully, for example. Gradually begin to feel more confident, taking one step at a time: do you see that it is already better?
Taking care of your physical appearance, taking care of your look is more important than you think. In fact, feeling your best makes you immediately more confident. And as we have seen this increases your sex appeal quickly and exponentially. Choose your clothing carefully, without exaggerating. You must always remember that I see I don't see is much more fascinating than a half-naked outfit. Wear something that makes you feel comfortable in the context you are in. Pay attention to your clothes, they must be clean and ironed.
Feeling beautiful is the first secret to really being beautiful and you certainly don't have to be a vip to do it peacefully!
Make-up can also be very useful for enhancing your strengths and making you feel more at ease, more beautiful and more desirable for all types of men.
Maintain contact
Your body speaks even when you shut up. Body language is undoubtedly one of the factors that determine your sex appeal. It is therefore important to avoid closed attitudes such as intertwining your arms or putting your hands in your pockets. To carry out your seductive and flirtatious purposes, don't forget that establishing a bond with your interlocutor is essential to attract his attention and not go unnoticed. Whether it is an eye contact, made by a skilful game of glances (never underestimate the power of women's eyes), or a fortuitous contact, with your hand touching her chest or shoulder, contact is important. Obviously it must be discreet and never intrusive so as not to be downright annoying. The ideal is to focus contact on neutral areas of the body, arms, shoulders, hands. This is true for women, a little less for men who could soon have the opposite effect.
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Whoever listens wins
Ok, let's assume that you, with a clever game of looks and a few right questions, managed to break the ice and get you noticed. Now it is very important not to make mistakes! Avoid the obvious phrases and everything that would characterize you as a woman looking for a conquest.Speak in a quiet voice not too low but not too loud, and take the right breaks. Choose topics that are interesting for both of you and avoid talking only about yourself. Increase your sensuality by showing a little sense of humor: it is a skill that men appreciate very much in women! If you are talking to a person, the secret to capturing their attention is not talking all the time but rather listening, alternating silences full of interest with some nods of appreciation. Your curiosity about what you are told will be irresistible to your male interlocutor.
Make yourself wanted: the always valid rule
Rare things spark interest. Isn't it true that lack of demand increases supply? If you really want to impress, wait to notice interest in your interlocutor, and leave the scene as soon as you can. Nothing can increase your sex appeal like not being taken for granted! It doesn't mean that it ended up there, obviously it's just a little trick to ignite the desire to learn more. Being desired is important as well as not giving in too quickly (sex can wait, at least a little bit!). Of course, make sure you've given him your phone number and valid clues to find you.
Smile and then smile again
If you smile, you positively prepare the man in front of you by generating empathy. Smiling is important to establish any type of relationship today more than ever. Since facebook, instagram and twitter have practically transformed 90% of our relationships into virtual exchanges, cultivating the art of kindness and knowing how to smile face to face is undoubtedly a point that will be assigned to you by your man.
Because having sex appeal really matters
Learning the art of sex appeal and cultivating these little tips will not only serve you to flirt perfectly and collect one conquest after another. Sex appeal can be very useful for keeping a relationship alive even after years of living together under the same roof or at work, to make your boss appreciate you, to earn the interest of colleagues and to propose you in the company as a charismatic and winning figure.
