6 secrets to please everyone you want to like
It doesn't matter where you are, whether at a business meeting or a party: there will be new people. Making an impression, the first time around, is important because, as I know, you don't have a second chance to make a good first impression.
There are more or less common mistakes and there are gestures that, on the other hand, can really change your social life, even if this could mean putting your diet aside ...
1. Make your way to the item
In other words, if someone is talking to you, make sure that person knows that you are giving them your full attention, and to do so, turn in their direction. Listen to his words with your face and body. He will certainly feel the respect you have for him and will remember it during the evening.
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2. Look who isn't looking at you and let them know you want to be looked at
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Don't lay your eyes on a good catch by leaving them there until he does everything possible to get them off, you just have to make him understand that, among those 10 people talking in a circle, he is the one who is attracting your attention, even if at the moment. he's not saying anything and is just sipping his cocktail.
Look at him and make the first move, the second will be up to him!
3. Remember
There is nothing better than a person who remembers, who manages to introduce elements of conversations made previously during a conversation, in case you have already met. In this case, here is what could be a useful trick. at the end of the evening, if it is a business meeting, you will certainly have collected an important number of business cards. On the back write some key words such as: "red hair, married to Paolo, loves yoga outdoors": al next meeting a little review will be enough!
4. Smile but not too much
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A smile lights up your face but, if you were to smile all the time, you would risk dazzling those around you. Meet someone's eyes and spread your face in a smile like this, the person in question will know that this is only for her and that it is not a treatment that you reserve for everyone even if, perhaps, that evening you are really reserving it for everyone. how many...
5. Stay calm
You meet someone new, you get agitated and gesticulate so much that you seem to be vigilant during the hour when the children leave school. to see you touch your hair. Try to stay calm and avoid abrupt gestures: dialogue will certainly benefit.
6. Talk
At school they teach you that it is necessary to wait your turn before opening your mouth: this is not always the case with events. Being careful not to cover up others, join the conversation and show interest. Who knows, with such a modus operandi, even a job interview could escape us ...
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