7 signs that he has no desire to commit
You have been together for a while "and yet neither of you has tried to go further, you are always stationary on your fixed points and you don't really talk about taking big steps. Love is a leap into the void but, before doing it, you have to be sure to minimize the risks ...
- · 1. You are always the second, or the third, or the fourth ...
- · 2. Never takes the initiative
- · 3. It never comes to you
- · 4. He is the master of procrastination
- · 5. Doesn't make an effort to get along with your friends
- · 6. His love is more fluctuating than a roller coaster
- · 7. As soon as you mention the future, it closes like a hedgehog
1. You are always the second, or the third, or the fourth ...
It is clear that he prefers to spend time with his friends rather than with you and this, of course, is not a good sign. In a relationship it is necessary that everyone has their own space and that each continues to cultivate their interpersonal relationships. But if he always has to choose others rather than you, it is really the case to choose you, rather than him!
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2. Never takes the initiative
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Laziness exists, it is a fact. Both men and women, at times, absolutely don't want to know about leaving the sofa for new shores, whether it be a trip out of town or a night at the cinema. If your man is a pathological stay-at-home the problem is not laziness but his feelings towards you: he doesn't want to pick you up because he has to watch a game of the African championship, what makes you think he will be there for you when you have need?
3. It never comes to you
Even if he shares a room with 7 brothers, 4 sisters, a canary, a turtle and a pet gerbil, in the evening, after a day's work, you are always the one who has to put on your shoes and bag to be able to spend a couple of " hours with him: such a person has no desire to get involved.
4. He is the master of procrastination
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Here by prevaricating we mean "but no sorry I read that maybe tomorrow it rains maybe tonight there is humidity you come to me or nothing come on, see you tomorrow". He is the magician of the last minute and, coincidentally, the one to sacrifice is always you.
Being in a relationship is a real commitment and if he behaves like this he doesn't seem like someone who wants to invest time in something other than himself ...
5. Don't try hard to get along with your friends
Except that he only saw them once and then he had to run away home since "love I'm going because I have a presentation in the morning I have to get up very early", he never expressed the desire to know them better and therefore, indirectly, to know you.
Same thing goes for your parents: as soon as you introduce him to the family the relationship will immediately start to get more serious and ... we're sure that's what he doesn't want!
6. His love is more fluctuating than a roller coaster
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First he kisses you, then he suddenly walks away and stops talking to you, then goes back to looking for your lips ... He is not overly in love, it is that the boy has very little desire to apply himself. Let it go and you will be the only one to win!
7. As soon as you mention the future, it closes like a hedgehog
Finding the perfect man is practically impossible, but that doesn't mean we have to settle for anything. these are topics that he is not yet ready to deal with, and he is by no means a person with whom he needs to make long-term plans.
Don't be satisfied: start being your own superheroine and then who knows, with a little patience you will find your Clark Kent!
