Sexual experiences: the ones that change your life!

That day they lived it as a revelation: their sexuality was completely upset! It happens that a single sexual experience upsets our principles, our fears, our habits and makes us discover new horizons. What you will read below are stories. of sex that will not leave you indifferent: a new position, an extraordinary lover ... Some women have told us in all sincerity the sexual experiences they will never forget!

With a partner out of the ordinary ...

With a man 20 years older than me ...
I met him at a friend's birthday party. He was her boss. He was very sexy, a mature man with grizzled George Clooney hair.
When he offered to give me a ride, I was flattered. I accepted and once we got under my building I invited him to come in. We had sex, and that was when I found out what it really was.
An experienced man, who knows women, who knows how to caress and touch them, changes everything. Nothing like my previous lovers, always in a hurry, too abrupt, clumsy or shy. Since that day I am much more demanding in bed!
Alice, 32, architect

With a girl...
My weak point? The day I slept with a girl! I was at a party and she openly tried with me all night. Brunette, goddess body, sense of humor ... She was attractive, but I was really embarrassed. How to say ... I was the straight girl, the one stuck in her certainties.
However, with the "help of the vodka," I let her do it and finally woke up the next morning in her bed, happy and peaceful. That day I found out I was bisexual.
Marina, 23, student of modern literature

Too frivolous
Like every year, I participate in a music festival with friends. Festive atmosphere, everyone talks to everyone, we make friends: it's a beautiful experience and also stimulating. Quite quickly, I flirt with a guy I just met.
The next day, I wake up in his tent, and there, anxiety: blackout, I do not remember the evening, I forgot his name and I realize that in the light of day, that he is not really a nice guy ... indeed! So I grabbed my stuff right away and sneaked away. For a month he continued to harass me on the phone to see me again. Since then I have been less frivolous and no longer go to bed with the first one I meet, the next day can be difficult!
Chloé, 33, communications officer

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Sex ... without limits

I've never been a fan of fellatio, in fact I'm almost disgusted by it. Every time I got involved I was a little reluctant and I never get to the end ...
In the office one day, I met this really hot guy. I was around for two months, until one day we found ourselves in the elevator. There she pressed the -2 button, which meant it went to the basement of the building.
Who knows if it was the unusual place, the desire or the desire to please him, but it was the most exciting fellatio I've ever had. And this time, I enjoyed it immensely! A real discovery, because since then oral sex doesn't make sense to me anymore!
Emilia, 29, journalist


The great escape
After a sexless pregnancy, between my husband and I, there was a deadly calm. With a baby who didn't sleep all night, our sex life was reduced to zero. I have to say I wasn't really thinking about it. no longer withstanding that tension, my husband decided to surprise me: he gave the baby to his parents and took me to "another city for the weekend."
Alone, the two of us, no baby to change, no bottle to prepare, nothing forced to do. It was a real sex festival! We didn't leave the room for the weekend: just a pity we didn't visit Florence well ... but we'll be back! So I regained my libido, which had been dormant for too long.
Christine, 34, accountant

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Sexual games

Little sexual game
I had been married for 6 years and at the time sex was more a marital duty than a passionate relationship. One night, my husband offered to make love blindfolded, for a change. I accepted and it was a sensual and passionate encounter. All my other senses have been awakened. My body reacted to the slightest unexpected caress, so my pleasure was increased tenfold. Not knowing where and when he would put his hands made the experience more than exciting. It broke the monotony of our sexual relations: now we are more in harmony than before.
Laura, 35, educator of young children

Without complexes
Divorced for 10 years, I am raising my two children alone. My family life has taken over my life as a woman. On the advice of a friend, I registered on a dating site. There I met Maxime, a young waiter aged 21. At first our conversations were purely friendly, but then they naturally became more intimate. I felt free to tell him everything.
After a few weeks of texting, we decided to meet. I was afraid of the meeting, because I feared he would find me less attractive physically and that he would notice the difference in age. In the end, it was the other way around. The complicity that we had developed on the Internet has also continued under the sheets. With him I had no complexes, I could share all my wishes, because nothing shocked him. Our idyll lasted only a few months but it revived in me the woman, the lover.
Nicole, 40, social worker

Experience for a day ... or forever!

A revealing betrayal
I had been dating my boyfriend for nine months when he introduced me to his best friend Paolo. We quickly became very close, so much so that sometimes we saw each other without my then partner.
After an evening of talking and laughing, the situation got out of hand. We slept together and I loved it. It was a strong and intense night, we made love 3 times. I realized my boyfriend didn't make me happy, so I left him the next day. Today I live with Paolo and I'm still in love.
Carlotta, 24, waitress.

Fallen in love
My sex fetish? The day I had sex with a guy I was really in love with. Sex with feelings is even better!
Sabrina, 26, owner of a bookstore

One night without the next day
Single, as I was going through the "I'm too normal, nobody will ever want me" phase, I slept with a guy I met at a club. He was a model and he was super sexy. I had a lot of fun, without consequences. That night gave me my self-confidence and good humor!
Gaëlle, 33, doctor

With two men
For me, sexual experiences with more than two people were reserved for porn movies ... or very "avant-garde" girls. I was single at the time. An ex-boyfriend I was friends with invited me for a drink and introduced me to one of his friends. The three of us spent the evening together, and as we got along, I offered them to finish the night at home.
I confess that I did not plan what happened next, but I have very good memories. What girl has never fantasized about having two handsome guys at the same time! I have not repeated the experience but I recommend it ... to be the object of all the attention for double the time, heaven!
Céline, 30, beautician

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New horizons

A new pleasure
When I met my current partner, I had been married for 8 years. I had always refused sodomy to my ex-husband, because I found it degrading and above all painful.
Then it came naturally to me, I let myself go with confidence and we shared an intense moment together, a new pleasure for me. How could I have deprived myself of this for so many years? There is no doubt that the partner plays an important role ...
Claudia, 37, housewife mother

I discovered my G-spot
For a long time I have been frustrated with having sex. Sure, I liked it, but I couldn't have an orgasm. I only came during foreplay, when my clitoris was stimulated. I had the feeling that I was not fully living my sexuality.
One day, while on my boyfriend in the rider position, I leaned back slightly. This was the trigger: within five minutes, I had two vaginal orgasms in a row. What sensations! It was intense and quite long. I had the impression that in this position I could control my pleasure. In fact, I had just discovered my G spot. I might as well tell you that since that day I have used and abused this position in bed. And it works!
Justine, 28, math teacher

Looking forward to prolong the desire
For our third date, I had invited Guglielmo to dinner at my house and I was planning to continue the evening in bed. Only when I started undressing him, he stopped me: he was a practicing Catholic and didn't want to make love before getting married. Cold shower! Yet, I thought there was something between us, I really liked him!
We kept seeing each other: we flirted, we caressed, but that's all. I wanted it, it was madness and I felt that he too was suffering from this expectation. It was frustrating and thrilling at the same time. A passionate, intense, half platonic, super romantic, passionate and intense relationship.
After six months we broke up, not just because of her vow of chastity. However, I don't regret our story, it made me realize that growing desire and postponing the deadline can sometimes be as nice as a hug. Since then, I've tried not to give up immediately, it's even better when you do.
Camilla, 28, nurse

Off the beaten track

Experience with a sex toy
An online private sales site where I usually buy my underwear organized a sale for a sex toy brand: I took the opportunity to get started. I had never dared to cross the threshold of a sex shop, so that was there. "opportunity to buy a vibrator. A few days later, I received my pink rabbit, like the one Charlotte uses in Sex & the City. Believe me: trying it is like choosing it forever, I can't do without it anymore!
Geraldine, 28, sales clerk

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Reconquest
I cheated on my boyfriend with a colleague. For several months, we hardly made love anymore, I felt abandoned. So, when Silvano made me a proposal during a seminar, I couldn't resist. I finally felt wanted, but it was quite clear to us that it was a one night "adventure. When I got home, I felt so guilty that I confessed everything to my boyfriend. He was shocked, he suffered a lot, but in the end he decided not to leave me.
This incident made him react, he realized that there was nothing for granted between us and since then he has done everything to seduce me and win me back. Sure, I regret my infidelity, but I am aware that it has brought a new breath into ours. history.
Milena, 31, social worker

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The right place, the right lover

In a public place
I was with a guy who loved having sex in public places. The elevator, the parking lot, the locker room, the car ... All those places always excited him. As for sex, I was more of the conventional type: we make love in bed, maybe on the couch or in the shower when we are fit.
So when he started warming me up before dinner, in the stairwell of our friends' building, I started pushing him away, as I always have. But that day was so insistent that I finally let him go. It was short, but so intense and exciting that it melted me.
Anna, 23, physics teacher

First time
The sexual experience that changed my life? Without a doubt, this is my first time. I was 17 and had decided to do it with someone I completely trusted. One of my best friends had been in love with me for a long time. I literally put him to bed with him and explained how I saw things. And it went very well. I took my destiny in my hands and today I am living a totally fulfilled sexuality because I continue to follow my instincts, to do things as I feel.
Aurélie, 20, psychology student

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