7 things to do with your boyfriend that are much more intimate than sex
Is sex really the ultimate in intimacy? Of course, it definitely helps to establish a very deep bond, but there are things (not necessarily clothes) that can cement a couple relationship. Even if making love has a lot of benefits ...
- · 1. Being seen naked
- · 2. Undress
- · 3. Look at the stars
- · 4. Write yourself (not on whatsapp)
- · 5. Cooking together
- · 6. Holding hands
- · 7. Pamper yourself
1. Being seen naked
When you have nothing on, and you are not under the covers, here comes the anxieties: the hips that in our opinion are too big, the stretch marks the legacy of an explosive growth, of the non-existent rolls, of the defects that very often are only in ours head.
Probably after such an experience you will end up under the covers again, but first you will have reached an unprecedented intimacy!
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2. Undress
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It is a metaphor because we have already shown ourselves naked in point 1. Undressing means dropping everything that protects us, that armor that we usually wear because we are afraid of being hurt. Being vulnerable unites because it means total acceptance: I trust you, I know you won't hurt me.
3. Look at the stars
Lying on the grass while looking at something that you cannot fully understand? The stars make you realize that you are infinitely small (since the universe is definitely very very large), and they will help to remind you that, even if you are small, you have decided to go through it all together.
4. Write yourself (not on whatsapp)
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Once the letters were the only way to stay in touch, they waited weeks, or even months to receive one. The sheet of paper, given the wait, was immediately loaded with innumerable emotions even before reading it. Try writing yourself a letter, leaving a note in your coat, wishing you a "good day" with the help of the post-it: once home you won't be able to stay away!
5. Cooking together
First of all, forget about the internet and rely on a recipe book so as to avoid any distractions. Distribute the tasks to each other and cook on a low heat too, just like the dishes you have decided to eat. The result does not matter: having produced something together will certainly give you a burst of joy!
6. Holding hands
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It is something that we tend not to do after the years together begin to increase. Take his hand in an unexpected moment: while you are shopping, when you walk along the street. It takes very little to actually realize that you are not alone!
7. Pamper yourself
Sleeping without anything spicy happening, just by exchanging caresses: how long has this not happened?
There are evenings when you are so destroyed that you collapse as soon as your head meets the pillow. Get busy with a pampering session, the next morning you will love yourself more than before and you will have discovered new shades of yourself.
