What do I wear to a cocktail party? Here are the golden rules to follow in order not to make mistakes

"At a cocktail party she wears a cocktail dress." The thing seems simple, but it is not at all! Finding the right cocktail dress is not easy, and the big choice could complicate things. Sequin or minimal dress? Long or short? Skirt or trousers? And accessories? Not to mention make-up and hair ...

To avoid drowning in a sea of ​​doubts, read our tips on what to wear to a cocktail party, to make a figure not beautiful, but perfect!

Dress up for the occasion

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Before we begin, it's important to understand what mundane event you are attending, and what is expected in terms of clothing. Is it a party with friends? An "official occasion? Where will the party be held? All these details are important to understand how to behave, sure not to be labeled as" the one who got it wrong ".

Different events, and even the different places in which they can be organized, require different behaviors, and advising you with the other guests, as long as you are familiar with them, is a "lifeline. Otherwise, you are not alone anyway! suggestion below.

The skirts

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Let's start where you wouldn't expect: skirts. At cocktail parties it is certainly not mandatory to wear a dress, unless the invitation specifically requests it! Skirts, the right ones, are a valid alternative, if you are free to choose. And then they give you more freedom to mix with different tops , shirts, or jackets. You can create a split between skirt and top, or a coordinated, then have fun with the accessories. In short, first of all, give vent to your creativity!

A little tip: if you wear a short skirt, make sure it is longer than your arms when you hold them at your hips. If your fingertips go beyond the hem of the skirt, it means that it is too short, and you are in the disco area ...

Choose a suitable dress

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If you opt for the dress, let it be the right one, and let it be perfect! First of all it must give you, enhancing the merits and hiding the defects.

For this you could consult our fashion tips according to your shapes.

Once you understand what you can afford and what not according to your shape, you can choose the one that makes you more elegant, maybe daring a little. "Precious fabrics, original prints, dresses that leave the back uncovered, necklines, everything is allowed, as long as is not excessive or in bad taste!

Class first ...

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Good taste must remain a fixed point: if you feel you have dared too much, and believe you are on the verge of excess, better take a step back! Better to attract looks of admiration than disapproval ...
A sense of proportion must be your good advisor: you must not be too decorated or too "naked", and in any case being sophisticated will always make you notice!

This would be the time to bring up the famous little black dress Coco Chanel talked about, the black and simple dress that makes you chic with little. Yet, we would understand if you were tired of the classic black and discreet dress. An example of how to escape this law without general disapproval can be found in the photo above A bright dress with a corolla skirt, like in the 50s of the best Dior, could be for you.
Is the corolla dress not suitable for you? Don't worry, there are alternatives no less chic than this one!

The men's suit

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Is there a need to bother icons like Marlene Dietrich to convince yourself of how glamorous a woman can be in a men's suit? One thing is certain, a woman dressed in such a suit at a party will make everyone wonder "Who is that. girl? "Not to mention the priceless value of an androgynous charm ...

Obviously you don't have to wear the suit loaned by your man, but a tuxedo suitable for you, designed specifically for women. You can find all kinds, however, if you don't want to go wrong, opt for black. It is not the usual, it is a classic!

A key accessory: shoes

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Shoes are a fundamental accessory. It is important, of course, to choose something that harmonizes not only with the dress, but also with the other accessories. And it is not mandatory to wear heels, even ballet flats might be for you, if you feel confident enough.

And you don't even have to go crazy to find the right shoes for your dress, you could do the opposite, you could build an entire look around those sensational shoes you bought especially for a "special occasion! What you shouldn't forget is put in place all the little tricks that can save you from annoying foot ache at the end of the day:

A must: the clutch

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So far we have given you freedom of choice among many alternatives, after all you have to go to a party ... But maybe it's time to establish some must, something you must have: the clutch.

Before proceeding with the reading, here is something to clarify your ideas on what a clutch is!

You have read? Good! The clutch, whether it is soft or rigid, should not be too full, just the essential for emergency situations, and it is important that it is the right one. Use it to give light to a dark suit, if you have chosen to wear blue or black, or to create a contrast of patterns, if you wear prints of some kind. And have fun creating references between shoes, clutches and jewels!

The jewels

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And here we are in fact at the jewels, the point on which it is easier to make mistakes. How many jewels to wear before getting vulgar? This is everyone's dilemma, and if you love to wear important and showy jewels, then you shouldn't overdo the rest.

To be used sparingly and very carefully: yellow gold is back in a big way, and it is right to wear it without fear, but be careful not to overdo it! The same goes for precious stones.

Make way for colors

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If you are tired of playing it safe with the usual black, don't be afraid to switch to color! Matte or bright colors, as long as they make you feel comfortable first and foremost and flatter your figure. It is no coincidence that a cheeky red is Valentino's favorite color, the undisputed master of elegance, so there is no need to fear it.

The secrets to choosing the color? You certainly won't like just one shade, so opt for the one that best suits your complexion, eye, hair and make-up color. Be careful that it is a color that goes well with your jewels, and of course with accessories ... To match the colors, you have two alternatives, play with complementary colors, or with contrasts, without exceeding with the rainbow!

The other accessories that create a look

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We've already listed shoes, jewelry and your inevitable clutch, but complementary accessories are not to be overlooked.

They will probably not be protagonists like everything else, being scarves, scarves, hats and so on, but your first entry to the evening will be with them on, so make no mistake, and be careful that they harmonize with the great surprise under the outerwear. ..

Make sure all items are in perfect condition

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When it comes to clothes, or delicate fabrics like silk, wrinkles are the problem.

Make sure you arrive in perfect shape for the evening, but then enjoy it and don't live in fear of sitting or moving freely. After all, a relaxed woman who smiles is more chic than one in perfect condition but with a fixed gaze ...

Choose your make-up well

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Make-up is crucial, because it is the final touch on a painstakingly constructed and well thought out look. It is important to maintain a certain balance, between the color and type of dress chosen, that of your complexion and your hair.

A rule that always applies is not to overdo it. Better to avoid glitter eyeshadows and false eyelashes, yes instead to an eyeliner that draws attention to the eyes and shimmer eyeshadows.

The last thing to wear is ...

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...a smile! You are at a cocktail party, enjoy!

Look at the looks of these celebrities to steal some ideas ...

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