5 lies we tell ourselves every day that prevent us from moving forward
With pre-established patterns, it is easy to close ourselves off in limits, set by those around us or much more often by ourselves. What happens? That we find ourselves telling lies to ourselves, to avoid questioning ourselves, facing climbs and uncomfortable truths, losing and discovering that our fears may eventually be true. The comfort zone is that safe zone that gives you safety, tranquility and allows you to feel "comfortably happy", but prevents you from moving forward. By doing so, how much of life do we get lost?
Watch this beautiful video on how important it is to ask when you are unsure, how valuable it is to be able to dare, at times, in something that intimidates us:
1. I'll do it tomorrow, today I don't have time
The time to be yourself at the best of who you are is now. Now. Tomorrow may be late. We are not talking about the washing machine to be done, but about the opportunities we give up, convincing ourselves that there will be time, for the fear of having to face something. Taking action is the only confirmation that you can do it.
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2. Better to avoid conflicts
But by avoiding them, in addition to boredom, what can you avoid? You avoid growing, confronting, and even overcoming the sorrows that could however increase your emotional world and your awareness. The world is founded on conflict, internal and external. It is not plausible to choose to avoid confrontation, because without confrontation, there is no encounter.
3. Another will know how to do it better than me
And how come another would be better than you? Based on what strange awareness? The best and the worst are consequences above all of the simple will to do, however it goes. But in any case to do, to question oneself. Do not leave to others what you would like to do by apologizing to yourself and assuming that someone is better than you. Isn't proving to yourself that you are better than you thought beautiful? Isn't that the meaning of our every choice?
4. I am unable to do this job
Not being at the "height of an" opportunity is an awareness that can only come when you have taken this opportunity, lived it, realized it. Not knowing how to do something is natural, trying to learn how to do it is right, obviously if that's what you like In the end, becoming aware of your limitations will only give you one more chance to be strong and productive Giving up without trying is cowardly.
5. If you are lucky then you are successful
Success is also the result of luck, but it is undeniable that it is determined by a number of factors. Luck is a good friend, but by itself it is certainly not enough and passively waiting for him to come and visit us with a bouquet of flowers is crazy. Our only real luck is ourselves and, if she doesn't knock on the door, then we go to find and build it ourselves. Our maximum commitment to something can determine our luck. sorrow, courage and a lot of willpower - it's not about luck, it's about choices.
Break all the stereotypes that crowd your mind and question yourself; perhaps with an activity that helps you find yourself:
