How to get your ex back in 5 steps

He left you, but did you feel with your cat instinct that it might not be definitive and would you like to win him back? Can't accept the end of your relationship and want to try them all? We will help you with 5 magical steps, but remember that the first thing to do is detach yourself from him, analyze your relationship with a certain rationality and, if you really want to start again, know that the road will be uphill and you will have to roll up your sleeves to find the magic you have lost. Where to start from? From yourself. Only if you can be strong for yourself can you really take care of the two of you. Seeing is believing. After all, aren't men eternal children? A few simple tricks are all it takes to conquer them, like this one:

1. Avoid pathetic scenes

Dignity: the supreme value that must never be lost. The goal is to win back his attention, not to appear as a puppy whose family was taken from soaked in water. So please: no misplaced messages, no jealousy scenes outside the bars, no Facebook posts complaining about yours. empty life, no depressing conversations with friends to soften him up.

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2. Indifferent but not too much

Do you meet him on the street? Smile to greet him. Does he write to you? Imagine the thoughtful answer (= group consultation with your friends, you are not rational). No weapon can hurt pride and pose as many doubts as gentle indifference. No one remains helpless to gentle indifference: it always arouses question marks and a strange attraction. The magical power of reconquest. He will wonder if you are really okay, and if he does. still cares about you, it will undoubtedly gnaw at him.

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3. Always be on top

Your life doesn't have to stop being social and wherever you are, you have to be on top. The photo of the night has to show the world how hot you are, if you meet him he has to gnaw, and the other males have to eat you with their eyes. Scenes where you get off in your pajamas for chronic depression with your mouth smeared with ice cream and dirty hair from two weeks on the sofa, spare them, yourself and the whole world (see point 1).

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4. Make the meeting happen

When you know where he is going, you will absentmindedly pass where he is. The meeting has to happen, you have to be in shape, shine with the light of your sweaty independence and, while you are chatting about this and that in the distance, catch a glimpse of a pretty nice guy and deliberately distract yourself. Make him feel that your looks are not all for him , but don't be excessive. Dear friend, you won't be able to resist this ...

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5. Undecided until the last

Don't give in right away. He must feel that maybe you will never come back. He must be "afraid", and never take you for granted again. Show perplexity but desire, desire to make love but fear of making a mistake, and let yourself be carried away by him again in that magical couple atmosphere that you missed so much ...

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At this point what to say? You will need some advice to turn passion into good practice