4 MARRIAGE THREATS NOT TO BE UNDERESTIMATED - LOVE-E-PSYCHOLOGY

4 underestimated threats to marriage we should all know (and avoid)

Marriage, the greatest promise we exchange with our partner, but also with ourselves. We want to keep that promise and try to protect "happily ever after". Hitting on some of the most notorious "threats" is sometimes not enough. That it may have a secret relationship, that there is no good communication between you, the decrease in desire ... certainly all difficult and important situations, but perhaps there are other more underestimated aspects that would instead require more attention, because as this shows us video the couple is constantly evolving:

1. Stop sharing by building walls

Life is never simple, and neither is sharing. So sacrifice is always to be considered as the other tiring side of the coin. If something doesn't work, what do you do? In life you face it, in two, as a team. energies in one direction only: your life together.

2. Don't accept the change

The man you married won't stay the same forever. And neither will you. Change is the consequence of our being, but are we ready to accept it? it is perhaps the only real defense we have to get to "forever".

3. Losing one's independence

Getting married does not mean definitively merging body and soul. Having your independence is very important for a fundamental reason: you choose to be a couple, but you are always two singles. Each with its own path and path. Not accepting it and expecting that the partner will "save" us from everything, or wanting at all costs to interfere in your partner's life is a violation of your human being as such, of individuals. Let's not forget the value of solitude.

4. Consider your husband only as a father and not as a partner

Loving a child has no equal. But loving those who conceived it must not be outdone. Neglecting a partner for a child, or a relationship with a partner, means harming the difficult and delicate balance of the family. Do not neglect this aspect helps yourself not to neglect yourself, because your life choices are worth as much as the choice to give your life.